There are valid points that you make and not sure if your points are specific to my situation or general at large.

People, by nature are selfish beings. In my case, there were two varying perspectives. What do two people do who have different wants but also want to stay together? That is the question I was faced. It is very rare for two people to want exactly the same things. There will be differences and as a result, someone has to compromise.

If you found someone who wants exactly the same things as you do all the time, then, you are ver lucky and dare I say, an outlier